How to Share Your Intimate Fantasies & Role Playing by Dr. Ava Cadell

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Fantasies & Role Playing Course

Fantasies and role-playing have long been recognized as powerful gateways to unlocking deeper passion, creativity, and erotic play in relationships. They provide a safe space to explore hidden desires, express sides of ourselves we may not usually reveal, and add excitement and freshness to intimacy.

This course is designed to take you on a journey into the fascinating world of sexual and romantic fantasies—showing you how they arise, why they matter, and how they can be embraced in a way that strengthens both passion and connection.

Throughout the course, we will examine both common fantasies that many people share, as well as more unusual or niche ones that might surprise you. You’ll learn about the psychological and emotional triggers that spark these fantasies, and how to transform them into playful and fulfilling real-life experiences.

From role-playing as different characters to stepping into scenarios inspired by stories, films, or personal desires, you will discover how fantasy can serve as a tool not just for pleasure, but also for self-discovery and communication.

One of the most valuable aspects of this course is learning how role-playing can be used as an effective communication technique for couples. By “getting into character,” partners often find it easier to express emotions, voice desires, and explore boundaries in a way that feels natural and fun. Role-play can help couples shed layers of inhibition, reduce performance pressure, and instead focus on curiosity, experimentation, and playfulness.

We will also cover practical elements: how to introduce the idea of role-playing to a partner, how to co-create safe and exciting fantasy scenarios, and how to use props, costumes, or settings to enhance the experience. Just as importantly, we’ll address consent, comfort levels, and the importance of establishing boundaries so both partners feel safe and empowered.

Ultimately, this course is not just about acting out fantasies—it’s about creating deeper intimacy, breaking down walls of self-consciousness, and reigniting passion through playful exploration.

Whether you’re new to role-playing or already intrigued by fantasy scenarios, Fantasies & Role Playing will give you the knowledge, tools, and inspiration to bring your inner world of desire into reality, all while building stronger emotional and sexual bonds with your partner.

This course follows SMART learning objectives (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic, Time-Phased). By the end of this course, students will understand and be able to:

1. Explain Hock’s assertion that sexual fantasies are an adaptive evolutionary survival mechanism.
2. Summarize how Somatization works.
3. Distinguish between legal and illegal sexual acts that are popular in fantasies.
4. Examine types of fantasy, and sexual fantasy writing samples to be able to explain to others the main elements of fantasy.
5. Develop a plan for couples to share and explore their sexual fantasies with each other in a safe and healthy way.
6. Identify the ways in which sexual fantasies affect partnered relationships, and their pros and cons.
7. Identify at least three (3) findings from Bruce J. Ellis and Donald Symons’ study of fantasies.
8. Explain the generalized differences between male and female sexual fantasies.
9. Understand the rules for acting out role-playing games or erotic fantasies to create a safe stage for healthy play.
10. Learn how female sexual fantasies were treated in the Victorian era.

COURSE WORK FORMAT:

1. Video:
FANTASIES & ROLE PLAYING Narrated Multimedia Presentation Video (55m)
Penthouse Sex Academy, Fantasies hosted by Dr. Ava Cadell & Dr. Hernando Chaves (1
hour, 28 minutes)
2. Final Quiz – 25 questions (about 30 minutes)*